Building Stronger Connections
Giving the Best of Ourselves to Our Children
It’s easy for parents to feel overwhelmed and disconnected from their children. However, creating a strong bond and giving the best of ourselves to your children is not only possible but crucial for their growth and development.
Let’s explore some important ways you as a parent can connect on a more meaningful level with your children.
Sharing You Skills and Knowledge
As a parent, you possess a wealth of skills and knowledge that will enrich your children’s lives. Sharing these skills will not only provide a unique opportunity for bonding but also teach them valuable life lessons.
Whether it’s teaching a trade, a hobby, or a particular talent, you can serve as a guide and mentor to your children. As the Bible reminds us, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6, ESV).
Sharing Your Family Stories
Your family stories are unique and have the power to connect generations and instill a sense of identity and belonging in your children. Sharing your childhood stories will help your children understand their roots and the values that have been passed down through generations.
These stories will also be a source of inspiration and wisdom.We learn in the Bible that family stories, from Adam and Eve to Abraham and Sarah, are not only an important part of sharing our history to guide the next generation but also serve as a great reminder of God’s blessing and faithfulness.
Promote and Model Moral Values
Instilling moral values in your children is of paramount importance; indeed it is one of the most important tasks in your parenting journey as a parent. You are the primary role models for your children, and therefore should strive to live in accordance with the values you wish to pass to your children.
Moral values, such as honesty, compassion, and integrity, are not just lessons; they are a way of life, they define the core character of an individual. Proverbs 22:1 (NIV) reminds us, “A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”
Healthy Routines for Celebration and Improvements
When you prioritize celebrating special times and milestones, you are purposefully creating many wonderful ways to connect with your children and build lasting memories. These routines not only provide a sense of stability, quality time and joy but also offer opportunities to teach gratitude and togetherness.
Special times like birthdays, accomplishments, and holidays should be cherished and celebrated with enthusiasm and anticipation. The Bible tells us in Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV), “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” Take advantage of all the moments you have with your children.
Practice of Faith/Relationship with God
One of the most profound gifts as a parent you can give your children is a strong foundation of faith and a personal relationship with God. Sharing your faith journey and nurturing your child’s spiritual development is an enduring connection that goes beyond this world.
Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV) guides us: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Connecting with your children and giving them the best version of yourself is a lifelong journey that involves being vulnerable, patient, considerate, intentional, and learning from one another.
If you’re looking for more ideas on how to create a stronger bond with your children, check out my Facebook group Family Focused Living for more helpful tips and resources.
